Sunday, June 22, 2008

I'm stealing this idea

Ok anyone with 2 or more children especially toddler and younger realize sharing is a word unknown to them and no amount of harping about it will make it true.

I found this site called Parent Hacks and saw this post

"Toy Jail" emphasizes the mutual benefit of sharing

Melissa's one tactful mom. I love this solution -- teaches skills without finger-pointing.

Our toddlers are 17 months apart and are constantly competing for toys. That's a nice way of putting it, right? :) I'm not a yeller, and I see that sharing is hard, so if things get heated, the toys go into Toy Jail. "This toy is causing a whole bunch of trouble today. Let's put it in jail and see if we'll have a better day with it tomorrow." Some of the hotly contested toys live in toy jail, poor things, but it seems to work about 80% of the time. My four year-old will stop and say, "Here, you take it before it goes into Toy Jail."


I am so going to try this idea out. Ronan will pretty much give up any toy to his big bro. However the reverse is NOT true. I'm over hearing "but I don't want to share" or my particular fav "Ronan doesn't want to share with me". The more accurate meaning of that is I don't want to share with Ronan.

Going to have to find a good sized box and paint some bars on it and Toy Jail in CAPS!

2 comments:

The McCabe's said...

what a BRILLIANT idea! yes, we're gonna have to steal it too! let's see how it works ;). lol ... this should be fun Jeanna!

Ellen said...

GREAT idea! We are going to have to try that as well..thanks for posting about it!
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